Tips Agar Anak Dekat Dengan Allah

Setiap anak lahir dalam keadaan fitrah, suci, bersih, dan senantiasa nyaman dalam ketaatan kepada Allah. Namun, jiwa anak juga Allah ilhamkan potensi baik dan buruk (takwa dan fujur).

Sebagaimana sabda Rasulullah shalallahu ‘alaihi wa salam, “Setiap anak dilahirkan dalam keadaan fitrah (Islam), maka kedua orang tuanyalah yang menjadikannya Yahudi, Nashrani atau Majusi.” (HR. al-Bukhari&Muslim)

Firman Allah, “Maka hadapkanlah wajahmu dengan lurus kepada agama (Islam); sesuai fitrah Allah disebabkan Dia telah menciptakan manusia menurut (fitrah) itu. Tidak ada perubahan pada ciptaan Allah. (Itulah) agama yang lurus, tetapi kebanyakan manusia tidak mengetahui,” (QS. Ar Rum:30)

Dan firman Allah dalam Al Quran, “Demi jiwa serta penyempurnaannya, maka Dia ilhamkan kepadaNya jalan fujur dan ketakwaannya.” (QS. Asy Syams: 7-8)

Allah menugaskan orangtua untuk memelihara fitrah itu agar senantiasa menyala dalam diri anak-anaknya, memberikan atmosfer kehidupan yang membuat potensi buruk (fujur) dalam jiwa anak tidak tumbuh dan berkembang. Salah satu hal yang dapat dilakukan adalah dengan selalu menghadirkan Allah dalam diri anak kita.

Pada suatu kesempatan, Bunda Elly Risman, seorang psikolog senior yang begitu konsern dengan dunia anak dan keluarga, memberikan tips bagaimana cara menghadirkan Allah dalam benak anak-anak kita.

Beliau menyarankan agar setiap melepas anak kita pergi main atau kemana saja, atau saat kita pergi meninggalkan anak kemana saja pandanglah matanya dan katakan padanya:

Nak, ingatlah bahwa:
– Allah bersamamu,
– Allah menyaksikanmu,
– Allah memperhatikanmu,
– Allah mencintaimu,
– Allah mencukupkan kebutuhanmu.

Tidak harus semua kata disampaikan, karena kadang terasa terlalu panjang untuk anak.

Sumber :
Bunda Elly Risman

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